Thursday, August 12, 2010
Wednesday, August 11, 2010
Tuesday, July 20, 2010
Blog # 9 My Inspiation
Posted by shantelmead at 5:50 PM 1 comments

I believe one of the things that inspires most people is Money!! in a way, this somewhat motivates me to buckle down and do whatever is necessary to ensure my success. As you aspire to be more successful in life, your attitude towards yourself and others will play a huge role also. Positive people learn how to handle life differently and use opportunities to grow. Everyone wants a better life and if you are constantly working on self improvement, you will develop more self-confidence, better self-esteem and greater internal motivation to be the best. Another thing that inspires me is people who demonstrate courage and strength. I am inspired by people who make it against all odds. More importantly, my son, he inspires me to want to be as good of a role model for him as I can possibly be. He is a major source of inspiration for me. He makes me want to be a better person and inspires me to get financially fit. He's one person I truly admire. No matter how much hard times I've had to endure, I always keep a good heart and positive attitude for him. But overall, I get inspiration from a desire to be the best I can be. here is a link on poems for motivation http://www.motivational-well-being.com/motivational-poems.html
Here is a motivational video
Saturday, July 10, 2010
Blog# 8 changes
Posted by shantelmead at 6:24 AM 1 comments

Having just about wrapped up my first semester, I can honestly say these last few months have been interesting yet fun. Meeting new people, had a little freedom, and have learned the consequences of procrastination. What we choose to do with out time differs greatly. Some spend most of their day socializing. Others spent the bulk of their time “pretending” to do work. Some spend their day thinking, while others spend time doing. Learning to effectively balance work, family and friends is of great importance. Despite its significance, many are terrible at managing their time. Instead of taking action that yields long term results, many fill their days with lifeless activities that wont matter the next day. I know I've struggled with this a great deal. Yet regardless of my struggles, I've seen significant improvement in being able to effectively manage my time. Everyday you have to choose. Believe it or not, you are in complete control of your own actions and thoughts. When you accept the power that comes with education, you're making positive life changes. You empower yourself to create a better world. Now I realize that going to college and getting a diploma is very important if you intend to make your way into this world. I'm in no position to walk away at this moment. Its a must that I make a better life for me and my child. Another thing I've learned is that in order to succeed in this world you must take initiative. Things don't just fall into place. I've noticed a lot of people under the impression that if you just sit back thinking positive thoughts, life will magically become remarkable. If you want to change any area in your life you have to take action. Life gives back what you put in. by taking action you create the opportunities you seek. Take baby steps. Showing initiative doesn't mean doing everything at once. It means creating your own path, your own luck. Do something everyday that will bring you the success that you desire. Whatever mistakes you've made in the past always remember to forgive yourself. Life is meant to be enjoyed. These past few months have been full of growth and opportunity and I'm just patiently sitting back, enjoying the ride and seeing what the future holds for me.
here's a link on how college changed peoples lives http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/139054/how_going_to_college_changed_my_life.html
Heres a video on finding peace with life's changes
Wednesday, July 7, 2010
Blog# 7 Study Habits
Posted by shantelmead at 2:00 PM 1 comments

When I study, sometimes I have a bit of trouble concentrating, being that I have a child. So what i like to do is study for 30min to an hour at a time. I say its better to pay attention for an hour practicing what you've learned opposed to spacing out, wasting time on nonsense and forgetting things. It also helps to study with a friend. That way you can combine notes and use each others brain and discussing what you learned. I think that helps to understand the material better. The most difficult part of studying is staying motivated. Every so often you should take some time out for fun. If you’re spending all your time working, studying, and watching after the kids, you’ll likely suffer in all areas. Everyone needs some down time to re-group. So, its good to set aside a little time every week for a favorite activity. Even if its just spending time with someone, just relaxing to relieve some stress. You’ll be more productive when you return to your work. Here are some tips on studying and staying organized
http://www.helium.com/knowledge/110323-how-to-stay-organized-in-school
Here's a video on college study skills
Tuesday, June 29, 2010
Blog# 6 Dating while in College.
Posted by shantelmead at 5:51 PM 1 comments

Good Idea or Bad Idea?
Dating someone you meet in a college is okay. I think it all comes down to a different mindset and maturity level. You are introduced into an adult lifestyle that is much different than high school. This may be the most important perk. You no longer make those same stupid dating mistakes you did in your past. I feel like at this point some people should know better. You are less likely to fall into the typical traps. A lot of people have already felt the sting of being used, being dumped, being cheated on, and being mistaken. Now you know better. Now you should know what you want and what you don't want. As people experience dating different guys and girls of all backgrounds and orientations, you learn what you can’t live with and what you can’t live without. You’re honing in on exactly what you need in a partner. Here is a link of some dos and don"ts on college dating..... http://collegeuniversity.suite101.com/article.cfm/college_student_dating_tips
Wednesday, June 23, 2010
Monday, June 14, 2010
Blog # 4
Posted by shantelmead at 8:52 PM 1 comments

On the internet I think you sometimes have to be careful what you say. The Internet is different from one on one conversation. Everything on he internet is recorded rather people like it or not. Whenever someone post pictures or send a message, it can forever remain in cyber space for all to see. Especially seductive photos, it may be a romantic gesture to a boyfriend or girlfriend, or a playful joke to a friend. But what if your boyfriend and you break up, or your best friend and you fall out, now they have something that could potentially harm you in the future. As for myself I never posted anything negative on the web. I don't want anything from my past to come back and haunt me. Before college I wasn't a very social person. I'm not a big fan of any social websites. I think ill make the change to become more social but at the same time continue to pay attention to my actions as well as others. I think now I can make that change to start communicating a little more. It can't hurt. President Obama says "think before you post"
Monday, June 7, 2010
Blog # 3
Posted by shantelmead at 7:10 PM 1 comments

Defining the “Creative me”
I've done art as a subject in high school and of course middle school and elementary school. I always LOVED art, and (I do not mean to sound boastful) I was the best in the school at the time, regularly charged with making backing pieces for school plays and other events. When you are good at art in this environment, where not many others are, whatever you make/draw, usually a big deal is made out of it. I’m sure a lot of people can relate. When I went into High school, I didn't participate in art for some reason. I don’t know why. Maybe it was some psychological reason, instilled in me since childhood, that I always thought I wasn’t good enough , despite art being one of the things I was good at. Maybe I was following others. I really don’t remember. It could have been anything. I continued doing art a little, tiny bit here and there, on my own. As you may know, studying art in high school means studying art history as much as “doing art.” Not paying attention in art meant I missed out on the aspect. It also meant, therefore, that my knowledge of art history and artists was limited. I never knew the amount of hard work it took for these people to get to where they got. Subconsciously, I always thought these people were superhuman and I slowly developed the misconception they were born with paintbrushes in their hands lol, and whatever they touched turned to gold. My knowledge, thoughts and beliefs connected to art was limited to this, then. For me, this was art. You have to be a ‘genius’ to be an artist, if not, don't try. since I felt i was not born an artistic genius, I was petrified whenever I picked up the pencil to draw. Anything I did draw was crap in my eyes, even if it was a good drawing. I couldn’t conceive the idea that I might actually be able to produce something decent art wise. Now I feel differently. I cant allow this talent to go to waste. There's definitely plenty for me to learn along the way but eventually I know I'll get to where I need to be. With lots of patience, hard work and motivation I'll have the needed knowledge in no time. Choosing this course will allow me to reach my level of success. In 5 years hopefully I'll be living the life I've always dreamed. Maybe starting my own business and traveling the world. here's a link of a beautiful image being drawn. Absolutely love the result
Wednesday, June 2, 2010
Blog #2
Posted by shantelmead at 6:16 PM 1 comments

During the presentation I have learned how to use the TCI online library. It is very helpful because now I can do research here for my classes. Also some study time when I need quiet time. There's nothing like a solid book, magazine, or newspaper to bring out a paper due. It's a lot easier to search for and find the things i need on the library site. Library online is now amazingly helpful. The scope of information I've been able to access is really going to help in my classes.. Also, It saves a lot of time and energy. This online library thing is so practical. why go out when you have all those books and more at your fingertips? it just makes sense to look it up instead of taking a trip to the library. the library has only so many books anyway, as where you can find so much more online. so why waste gas and hop from place to place trying to find what i need when its silly not to just look online first? it would be a waste of time unless i knew for a fact the library had what i needed. Anyway, Here is a link I found for one of my DMA classes. http://www.digitalweb.com/articles/principles_of_design/
I find this site helpful because it shows how to use and guide different designs and arrange different objects. For my computer networking class i found this link http://www.computerhope.com/ this site has a list of different computer components and describes each one individually. making it easier to understand. Here's a site for my English/writing class and also for every other class i listed above http://www.how-to-study.com/ this site helps and shows you better ways to study. that along with brushing up on different problem areas in each subject.
Tuesday, May 25, 2010
Blog #1 Chapters 1 and 2 of 'College Rules...
Posted by shantelmead at 4:46 AM 2 comments
Adjusting to life at TCIAttending college has been a big decision for me to make. Especially with leaving my child behind all the time so mommy can make a better life for him. Also get him prepared and start a savings bond for his college education. For some people I know that there are a lot of sacrifices to be made but trust me in the end it'll all pay off. There are many reasons why so many people
choose not to go to college such as not being able to handle it financially, thinking college is too hard, or not being too sure what direction they want to go in life. I believe that these feelings are normal when trying to make that big college decision, but you should not allow it to actually prevent you from going. I find that I'm learning way more than I did in high school. You not only learn about the world in general, but you also learn about yourself. Being in college has taught me time management skills, and organizational skills. It also taught me to be a little more confident (I'm still kind of working on that) . Hmmm... where do I see myself 5 years from now? lets see, well, 5 years from now In an ideal world, hopefully by then I will be an entrepreneur.. start my own business. become my own boss, work for myself. I will be independent... hopefully by than I will have another child and remarry. My debts will be paid. Then hopefully I'll start traveling the world, living life to the fullest.







